We show that the (weighted) harmonic operator mean is characterized as an operator mean $m$ satisfying $F(A m B)\le F(A) m F(B)$ for every operator monotone function $F$ on $(0,\infty)$ based on the numerical means. We also show the non-affine representing function $f_m(x)=1\,m\,x$ of an operator mean $m$ is an extreme point of the set of representing functions $F$ with $F\circ f_m\leqq f_m\circ F$.